Burned

"Where there is desire means there's going to be a flame; and where there is a flame, someone's bound to get burned." -Pink

Do you remember how it feels to be in love? With every laugh, you fall more for the other person. With each glance and every surprise kiss, you can't help but think how lucky you are.

Now, do you remember what it feels like to have that taken away from you? To be ripped from you so fast you're left in utter shock? When every time you close your eyes your parting conversation haunts you?

I do.

I think the worst part about a break-up is when you realize the person you were once with is nothing more than a stranger now. The memories you shared become a piece of your imagination. 

My question for everyone who knows what I’m talking about is: Are we sad the relationship is over or that the other person will forget about us? That is the troubling thing about break-ups: Are we holding on to memories or to people?

It’s hard to distinguish between missing that person and missing the memories. I’m sure every person around you has told you the age-old saying, “time heals all.” But with your memories haunting you, that can be a daunting piece of advice.

As this chapter is forced to an end, a hopeful one opens up. So here’s to all you strong, independent women; May your future be bright with love and happiness